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Friendships and Romantic Relationships

Youth and young adults engage in many different types of relationships with people they know. This includes friendships and romantic relationships (dating). However, the relationship we have with ourselves is one of the most important. It helps us to see what being in a healthy relationship with others looks like, how to set boundaries, and how to respect others with their boundaries. Building skills in friendship, conflict management, empathy, and gratitude are important to relationships and building a healthy sense of self. 

Every school board and/or school has their own policies and/or procedures related to bullying at school. Fostering a safe and inclusive environment at school is a priority. There are different activities and interventions that can be done within the school community to help achieve this. At times, this can be done with the help of community partners like us.   

Students with quality friendships, caring adults and supportive environments are less likely to engage in or be victims of bullying and participate better at school. Many resources are available to support the anti-bullying message. These include various professional development opportunities as well as resources for adults (including staff) and caregivers. 

Bullying and Cyberbullying 

According to Ontario’s provincial legislation, bullying is defined as “repeated aggressive behaviour by a student where the behaviour is intended to have the effect of, or the student ought to know that the behaviour would be likely to have the effect of, causing harm, fear, or distress to another individual.” Bullying can appear as physical, social, psychological, and academic harm, as well as harm to an individual’s property or reputation. Often, bullying will happen where there are perceived or real power imbalances based on things such as gender identity, sexuality, race, ethnicity, religion, physical size, disability, and sexual orientation, among other factors.  

Ontario’s legislation has defined cyberbullying as occurring “when a student engages in bullying behaviour electronically and includes activities such as: creating a web page or blog while pretending to be someone else, impersonating another person as the author of posted content or messages; or communicating material or messages to more than one person, or posting on an electronic platform that can be accessed by one or more persons”.  

Bullying directly impacts the mental health and wellbeing of victims in the long and short term. Research suggests that youth who are bullied over time are more likely to experience mental illnesses like depression and anxiety as well as physical symptoms such as headaches and stomach aches. As well, they are more likely to suffer from low self-esteem and want to avoid school. The mental health implications of bullying can last a lifetime. Those who engage in bullying on the other hand have been shown to experience more anti-social behaviours, substance use concerns, aggressive tendencies, and difficulties at school and throughout life.

Resources and Supports  

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Bullying Resource from Ottawa Public Health

Parents and Caregivers

What to do as a parent or caregiver when your child is being bullied

PEVNet Canada 

Students, Parents and Caregivers, Educators 

Evidence-based programs and information related to bullying and healthy relationships 

Ontario Teachers’ Federation 

Educators 

Useful links for bullying prevention activities and related resources for classroom/school-wide implementation  

Ministry of Education (Ontario) 

Educators, Parents, and Caregivers 

Definitions related to bullying, reporting processes, signs of bullying and related consequences  

Ontario Secondary School Teachers’ Federation 

Educators 

Useful links for bullying prevention activities and related resources for classroom/school-wide implementation 

Bullying Ends Here 

Students, Parents and Caregivers, Educators 

Ontario crisis centre and related phone numbers and contact information 

Red Cross Canada 

Educators 

Bullying and harassment prevention resources and information 

Safe @ School 

Educators 

PD opportunities and related information and resources to support inclusive environments and healthy relationships 

Media Smarts 

Students, Parents and Caregivers, Educators 

PD opportunities and related information and resources to support digital and media literacy skills 

Centre for Addiction and Mental Health 

Students, Parents and Caregivers 

Tips for building healthy relationships with your Teenagers 

Kids Health Org 

Students, Parents and Caregivers 

Am I in a healthy relationship? 

Thames Valley Police Services (UK) 

Students, Parents and Caregivers 

 

A short, witty video that makes you think about consent. 

TeenTalk 

Students, Parents and Caregivers 

Healthy Relationships 

Everyday Mental Health Classroom Resource 

Students and Educators 

Resources supporting skill building 

Brene Brown 

Students, Parents and Educators 

Video about empathy 

Everyday Mental Health Classroom Resource 

Students, Educators  

Resources supporting skill building 

Everyday Mental Health Classroom Resource 

Students, Educators 

To teach students to actively listen to each other, which helps them feel valued and understood 

Dove via OPHEA 

Educators 

Building confidence and positive sense of self 

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